Monday, August 10, 2009

Because it is all about Attitudes....

Some people said they were depress because lack of money. They cannot buy what others can buy. Some people said even they have a lot of money and can buy everything but they still feel that their life are incomplete (even they got many gf, active life whateve..)

Actually our happiness is not when we got everything that we want (handsome, pretty, rich, power)...because we always want more. It is all about our attitudes towards our life. Banyak duit or rich..yes everybody looking for the word 'money'. But do you realize sometimes or most of the time money could make us 'perish'...? yes it is. (Rosak akhlak, Arak, clubbing, sombong, ramai gf or bf, hidup tanpa sempadan bcos we can buy or do everything).. only if we did not know how to control it. and it is again related to our attitude. MOney not necessarily can give us happiness. (but really everything need money this days...hmmm).

MOney is not the only thing in our life. Don't think too much about money ----------->> my lecturer said this.

The longer I live, the more I realize the impact of attitude on life. Attitude, to me, is more important than facts. It is more important than the past, the education, the money, than circumstances, than failure, than successes, than what other people think or say or do. It is more important than appearance, giftedness or skill. It will make or break a company.... a home. The remarkable thing is we have a choice everyday regarding the attitude we will embrace for that day. We cannot change our past... we cannot change the fact that people will act in a certain way. We cannot change the inevitable. The only thing we can do is play on the one string we have, and that is our attitude. I am convinced that life is 10% what happens to me and 90% of how I react to it. And so it is with you... we are in charge of our Attitudes."

~American writer~

Yang penting bagi aku adalah bahagia. Masa kecik2 dulu hidup susah tp bahagia :->
Tak sunyi...complete...ada kasih sayang. Masa kecik2 dulu..I cannot buy what my frends can buy at school. Aku takde permainan..aku takde beskal (masa tu smua org nk beli beskal...huhu). Jaln kaki jauh pegi skolah tapi balik skolah sronok sebab kompom da siap mknn kt meja mak masak. hihi

And 1 more thing...most of the boys (budak2 skolah) said that I was UGLY...(yes I am). Itu antara sebab aku pilih skolah pompuan sahaja in secondary school. but my mother said do not to worry about all those things. Study rajin2 (mak aku ckp mlayu la tp). Yes.. I were growed up dalam serba kekurangan tp aku tetap jadi normal sbb mak aku punye sifat adalah "VERY GOOD ATTITUDES". Wpun dia sendiri hidup susah membesarkan ank wihtout husband.

All we need is good/positive attitudes no matter what kind of situation we have to face.

"Smile when it hurts most"


  1. Masa kecik, cerita kita agak serupa. And... I am ugly too. (but u r not)

    But, the fact is there are only two choice... to be happy or to be sad.

    We can choose one, everytime. :)

  2. kaya hati, perilaku n diri yg penting dr kaya duit, sbb kadang2 bole m'bawa kepada kemusnahan jugak. yelah...duit byk..leh beli tu..beli ini...bleh jugak beli jiwa org..lbh2 lg yg meterialistik.

    so...lbh baik kaya dgn iman n takwa..lbh kekal n lbh sempurna.

  3. haha...awk xbrape kenal sy la masa skolah rndah khairi. we were not at the same class.
    btw, I am definitely agree with the 2 choices. we can choose to be happy or not. sedeh skali pon choose to be happy also.

    btul yus..duit bole beli jiwa org. TU yg jd rasuah bagai.

  4. money is not everything syg~ :)
    ada duit, tapi hati sakit..nak wat gapo~

    btw, my blog is private now.. dah invite u kan??~

  5. eh..da private?
    aritu sy view masih boleh...huhu

    blom invite sy kot bcos I annot access your blog. invite lah

  6. kak pah kito hudoh...huhuuhuhuu...mmg rabun laa mata budak tuh....hikhikhik

  7. aaa....perfect article for me yg memang tgh runsing dgn masalah dunia nih..sob..sob

    ye..rindu zaman kecik2..

  8. masalah dunia tuh = ujian dari ALLAH...kalu berjaya tempuhi dgn baik...insya allah selamat dunia dan akhirat...:)))

  9. hurmm yaa stay as d way u are dear~

    keep up d gud attitude..

  10. Dilala jgn sedih2...choose to be happy k.

    tq He and She. hehe