Thursday, October 30, 2008

perasan atau tidak.............?????

Sesuatu yang anda tidak perasan atau tidak terfikir langsung...

1.Sekurang-kurangnya ada 5 orang dalam dunia ini menyayangi anda dan sanggup mati kerana anda.

2.Sekurang-kurangnya ada 15 orang dalam dunia ini menyayangi anda dalam beberapa cara.

3.Sebab utama seseorang membenci anda adalah kerana dia ingin menjadi seperti anda.

4.Senyuman daripada anda boleh membawa kebahagiaan kepada seseorang, walaupun dia tidak menyukai anda.

5.Setiap malam ada seseorang mengingati anda sebelum dia tidur.

6. Anda amat bermakna dalam hidup seseorang.

7. Kalau bukan kerana anda, seseorang itu tidak akan hidup bahagia.

8. Anda seorang yang istimewa dan unik.

9. Seseorang yang anda tidak ketahui menyayangi anda.

10.Apabila anda membuat kesilapan yang sangat besar, ada hikmah disebaliknya.

11.Sekiranya anda merasakan anda dipinggirkan, fikirlah semula; mungkin anda yang meminggirkan mereka.

12.Apabila anda terfikir anda tidak mempunyai peluang untuk mendapatkan sesuatu yang anda ingini, mungkin anda tidak akan memperolehinya, tetapi sekiranya anda percaya pada diri sendirilambat- laun anda akan memperolehinya.

13.Kenangilah segala pujian yang anda terima.Lupakan segala makihamun, ca! ci & cela.

14.Jangan takut untuk meluahkan perasaan anda; anda akan merasa senang bila seseorang mengetahuinya.

15.Sekiranya anda mempunyai sahabat baik, ambillah masa untuk memberitahunya yang dia adalah yang terbaik.



No. 1 >>> I dun think anyone would die for me now...10 years ago mybe yes.
No.2 >>> hopefully there are 15 or more but if not..i'm also grateful :->
No.3 >>> Seems like nobody want to be me coz nobody seems hating me...hehe
No.4 >>> like the song "I will miss yur bright eyes n sweet smile". huhu
No.5 >>> Are there??? (o_0)
No.6 >>> Wah...that's good if I meant to someone
No.7 >>> No lah...everybody happy on their own way
No.8 >>> Am I special....??? (looking myself in the mirror)
No.9 >>> Yeke....actually I not really sure if there a person really love me. huhu..sob2
No.10 >>>Yes...everybody hope so.
No.11 >>>O..yeah. maybe.
No.12>>>yesss...be confidence babe..!!!
No.13>>>Pernah ada org puji ke...lupa da
No.14 >>>I love u....I'm sorry....really dissappointed wif u...sy makan hati..i'm happyyyy.....n whateve lah
No.15 >>>psst psst missy....thanks for being my good friend. really appreciate

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Monday, October 20, 2008

Never let yurself love somebody's husband

Salam

Ntah naper tetiba rase nk pesan kt smua perempuan kt malaysia ni agar diorang tak tersalah lngkah to love or terlove husband org. Penah terbaca dlm majalh (motivasi dr. Tuah) yg sorang perempuan, married woman go to see dr Tuah to tell him her problem about her being fall in love with somebody's husband. Isteri org jatuh cinta kt husband org...Bermula as a friend an then both of them falling in love with each other. Dalam hati aku... Asalla wife org ni gatal lg kt org lain. Husband org ni pun satu..miang. Cait...

And it reminds me about my good friend, nearly 11 years we have been together as a good friend. 1 day she told me that her bf is somebody's husband with 3 sons if I not mistaken. The problem is she didn't knew that the guy has been married until that day. So...I cannot blame her for having scandal with somebody's husband. And from that day I became a 'kaunselor xterlatih' for her. Slalu call aku n nangis sbb xdpt lupakan that guy. Dia mau lupakan lelaki tu tp bile da rase sayang susah nk buang. While that guy sedaya upaya nk teruskan hubungan siap ajak kawen n sudah mintak permisi wife dia untuk tambah cawangan. My friend ask me ok tak kalo jd wife no. 2...haha. aku pun blur2 nk jwb soklan tu tp dgn susah pyh aku cube cr fakta2 kukuh supaya dia tak suke laki tu. dalam hati aku rase nk pegi jumpe laki tu n nak 'lempang'je dia. Alhamdulillah, at last kawan aku berterima kasih kt aku sbb aku btul2 tarik dia dr laki tu. hehe...dia kata kalo takde support dia mmg fail or mybe trima laki tu.

At that time, I cannot understand why my friend still love that guy after she knew that he lied to her about his status. If it was me, I thought I will hate that guy on that time I knew. But now as time passes, my thinking also change (maybe sbb da makin tua kot)....bukan senang nak buang org yg da kita syg. Disadvantage cinta 3 segi ngan husband org ni akan byk kesannya pada org ke-3. Why...?
1) Kecewa sbb kena tipu bila tibe2 wife dia call tanya apa hubungan kita ngn husband dia.
sakit jantung kjap...ye dak. Ataupun sampai satu tahap dia sndiri mengaku sudah beristeri.
2) Kemungkinan besarla akan jd enemy seumur hidup oleh wife dia. haha...sementara dia
rileksje sbb wife xberani nk marah dia.
3) Sometimes bile 3rd party ni nk luahkan perasaan pasal kes ni...ramai org akan ckp,
"itula..sape suh cr pasal ngn husband org". " Yg ko nk layn tu knape bile da tau husband org".
100% hanye 3rd party akn dipersalahkan. huhu...pendam jela sorang2.
4) Melawan perasaan rindu..benci..kecewa...bla bla bla. Masa je la mampu merawat..heh.
5) Sedangkan kebanykan husband org ni hanyela main2 je...saje nak buang masa n hilangkan
boring. nk tambahkan rempah dlm hidup dia...dia sendiri pun sebenarnya takut wife.
Kebanyakan kes mcm ni rasenya dsebabkan sikap selfish kaum laki.

So gadis2, anak2 dara, janda whatever pun...be careful. Don't let yurself fall in love with someone's husband. kalo da jodoh jd madu nk wat ganer kan..tp kalo boleh elak untuk kebaikan elakkanlah. Bile da terlove husband org n mau melupakan dia, cuba ni :
1) Every day convince yurself that u will never love someone's husband. "Aku tak suka dia".
" Ksian wife dia kalo aku suke dia". "Tak sampai mana pun suke laki org ni". pk la ape2 yg
patut sbb pakar motivasi kata kita akn jd apa yg kita pk. hehe...lama2 perasaan tu hilng.
2) Stop telling yur friend about him except if they asked you. Close the story about him n kita
sndiri pun akn kurang tringt dia. xperlu luahkan prasaan slalu kt org. Be natural...
3) Cari sebanyk mana perkara yg kita bnci ada kt diri dia. Kalo xdapat cari...create sndiri bnda
yg kita benci tu dr sikap2 dia yg kita kenal.
4) Just imagine him like lelaki2 yang kita tak suka. selfish...gatal...lemau...hehe.

Cukupla tu kot...hopefully this petua can 'reduce' yur feeling to him or 'demolish' the feeling at all. oklah...aku pun dah rase sgt lega n ringan kepala after write this blog. Good for me. haha

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Thursday, October 16, 2008

Assalamualaikum..

My first blog...hehe. Masih blur2 apa nk tulis kt blog ni. Tp memandangkan waktu yg boring dan hujan lebat mcm ni plus lagi xtau nk wat ape tulisje la ape2 sini. Lagipun blog ni bukan nk dipromote kt sape2 pun..jd tmpat tuk hilang boring je.

Sempat lg ni nk wish Selamat Hari Raya kt sape2 yg trbaca blog ni...haha. Selamat Ari raya smua.
Ingat nk start pose tp xsempat2 lg..nape ntah. Kes malas ler nih...da kena tunggu 6hari lg kalu nk start pose. Buang masa sungguh la rase. Harp2 smpat pose 6hari dlm bulan syawal ni.

After raya ni mood aku down sungguhler..nape ntah. Bulan pose punyela smangat . Tp lps raye ni mcm hilang abes mood...sampaila arini baru rase ada life balik. Mcm kena sedut je all the happiness..cam kena kiss kt dementor dlm citer heri potter. Alhamdulillah lps amek cuti smalam dan sampai 'waktu nye'...normal la balik. HArap2nye tak jd lagi mcm ni....kalau xde mood skali pun xmau lagi sampai tahap ni. Mau sakit jiwa rase. haha...

But I realize I cannot blame others for what I feel...There must be something that I should learn more. About the familyhood relationship, friendship...love things or whatever, it depends on ourself to conduct the way it is. Sometimes I feel really regret n dissappointed but I also admit nothing I can do by bringing this feeling to them...no matter what happen, xmungkin sampai nk putus hubungan wpun sakit hati. bak kata pepatah mlayu la..sbb kite org mlayu..'Air dicincang takkan putus'. Ntahler..harapnya.

So today as I become normal, then I should think positively towards what i'm gonna do next. Really hope that my application to further master degree will be accepted. he..that will bring some cheers to me really. Insyaallah.

ni aku amek dari buku 'La Tahzan' :

"Seorang yg bertindak perlahan
terkadang dapat mencapai tujuannya
Org yg tergesa-gesa
kadang-kadang mengalami ketergelincir"

Buatla apepun..janji niat betul dan cara pun betul..Insyaalah.

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